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Yes, heart, weighs an average of 300 pounds in humans but can change its weight according to your mood. I chose this title because I was confused between writing my heart out or writing what others would like to read, of course I chose my heart. Well, isn’t that what we do when it comes to taking the biggest decision of our lives. We go where our heart takes us. But once we choose the path of our hearts and face any difficulties while walking on it, we start thinking, thus enters our brain, we think, we over think and then curse our hearts. Now think about it.

The problem with the above mentioned matter is that we start thinking once we have already set sail on the path. I’m no guru, but what I feel and what I always do is I choose what my heart says and after that I plan, I make strategies and then finally board the ship to my dreams and wishes. Yes, it’s true that things may or may not go according to your plans, in my case it happens all the time, but then I don’t have any reason to curse my heart.

'Relationships', you never plan and enter into a relationship, it just happens, you just follow your heart. But what happens when things go sour, you curse, you think and over think and get depressed. You start finding faults in yourself or in others or as a matter of fact even in this whole wide world. But after entering into a relationship whose responsible to face the problems? Should've thought about it in the beginning itself, isn't it?

'Dreams', as a child we always dreamt of becoming a pilot, an astronaut, a doctor, a policeman or a lawyer. These were the things that we liked, that our heart wanted us to become. But, the fog of unbearable load and stress of the real world and responsibilities, covered our dreams and made it almost impossible for us to see through. That's because we started planning way before we even boarded the ship of our dreams.

Our hearts helps us in taking the most difficult decisions and sometimes it also puts us into sheer complex situations. I have always tried to follow my heart and thus I have some really amazing friends, a loving family and I’m on my road to pursue my dreams. The only thing that I didn’t do was curse my heart for anything that went wrong.

Introspect, listen to your heart, follow its directions, face the difficulties, take a stand, believe in your dreams and most importantly believe in yourself. When in difficulty, close your eyes and listen to your heart and follow what it says, because indirectly the heart only tells you what you actually wanted all along. Things will definitely go out of the way, but there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. The only thing that you’ll have to do is keep on going. Make plans, fail, face the failure and defeat. But get back right up, with more enthusiasm and vigor.

I would like to quote a very famous dialogue from the movie ROCKY BALBOA,
“Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that! “

The last thing to age on somebody is their heart!

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